[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":205},["ShallowReactive",2],{"writing-\u002Fwritings\u002Fwhy-im-unreachable":3},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"date":191,"description":192,"draft":193,"extension":194,"meta":195,"navigation":196,"path":197,"seo":198,"stem":199,"tags":200,"__hash__":204},"writings\u002Fwritings\u002Fwhy-im-unreachable.md","Why I'm unreachable",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":174},"minimark",[9,13,23,28,31,35,38,42,45,48,52,55,60,91,94,97,101,104,108,111,115,118,122,125,148,151,155,167,171],[10,11,12],"p",{},"Being open to everyone to reach you is costing your own life and mental health. Having your phone number and email address public is not a good idea. Over phone you can mute, mail you can filter, but you can't mute or filter someone who can come to your home. Coming to your home is truly proof of someone’s dedication.",[10,14,15,16],{},"This is more highlight what I'm doing for while and I see this trend is getting recognized by people more who value more their time and mental health. One popular is by ",[17,18,22],"a",{"href":19,"rel":20},"https:\u002F\u002Flevels.io\u002Fcontact-levelsio",[21],"nofollow","Pieter Levels",[24,25,27],"h2",{"id":26},"remove-distractions","Remove distractions",[10,29,30],{},"My social media like Instagram, Facebook and Twitter I've got uninstalled from my phone. Why? Because I can't control who can write to me. On Twitter you can disable DMs, but you can't control who can come to your inbox. On Facebook filter was weak and inbox got spammed. Instagram? Not even worth mentioning.",[24,32,34],{"id":33},"telegram-and-stars-you-can-do-it-too","Telegram and stars - you can do it too",[10,36,37],{},"Telegram seems only standed. I started with 1 star, still got lot of spam, roughly 30 messages per week at least, 50 tops. Useless distraction. Then I increased to 10 stars and seen noticeable decrease in spam. But was still disrupting and recruiters or influencers asking for collaboration paid it, then I raised to 100 stars and that seems genuinely great. Only people who had genuine interest, anything ranging going for steak, investment any net positive action for both parties. Best part? If I was part of some popup, I genuinely refunded those stars as act of good behavior.",[24,39,41],{"id":40},"rotate-phone-number","Rotate phone number",[10,43,44],{},"Phone number I've rotated for while, it is good not just for privacy and opsec, but also for nasty ai spam calls, which always dig your phone number from somewhere.",[10,46,47],{},"Why you should care? Let it break for you. Synthesizing from Peter.",[24,49,51],{"id":50},"theres-24-hours-in-a-day","There's 24 hours in a day",[10,53,54],{},"I've tried to figure out and this is kind of a normal day for me:",[56,57,59],"h3",{"id":58},"_24-hours-in-a-day","24 hours in a day",[61,62,63,67,70,73,76,79,82,85,88],"ul",{},[64,65,66],"li",{},"8 hours of sleeping = 16 hours left",[64,68,69],{},"1.5 hours of showering, cleaning up, coffee = 14.5 hours left",[64,71,72],{},"4 hours of managing contractors, firefighting and fixing bugs = 10.5 hours left",[64,74,75],{},"1 hours of groceries or errands = 9.5 hours left",[64,77,78],{},"1.5 hours of gym or going for a walk = 8 hours left",[64,80,81],{},"1.5 hours of staying in touch with friends\u002Ffamily = 6.5 hours left",[64,83,84],{},"1.5 hours of cooking and eating = 5 hours left",[64,86,87],{},"4 hours of deep work, building new features\u002Fproducts = 1 hours left",[64,89,90],{},"1 hours of sex\u002Fhugs\u002Flove = 0 hours left",[10,92,93],{},"That is sunset of your day, you need go sleep and next sunrise is coming.",[10,95,96],{},"Now try to think where do you spend your time? Do you think is it worth it replying people you don’t know? If you have mutuals that is solid filter but answering random calls is like replying on shouting from street.",[24,98,100],{"id":99},"ghosting","Ghosting",[10,102,103],{},"Another part is, some people think I'm ghosting them intentionally. Well, if your inquiry did not spark curiosity to pick it up right away, there might be something more interesting for me to do with my time than replying to you. It is technically you are renting my brain time for your task. Yes that is why we invented money.",[24,105,107],{"id":106},"price-of-reply","Price of reply",[10,109,110],{},"I think this is great angle to look at it. Either your are fortune you are in my close circle of friends and family which are privileged to have my time and generally enjoy their company and their mine or you need to pay for my time. I think people who really want my output on something are willing to pay for it. Yes we call it consultation fee but I'm not doing it for money but just I can recycle earned money to buy back my time, i.e. while I reply to you I can hire cleaning lady or nanny to take care of my kids.",[24,112,114],{"id":113},"life-is-short","Life is short",[10,116,117],{},"We might live on average 80 years, if you do Bryan Johnson routine, maybe you hit 156 years, but I think it is more important how do you spend your time. Is it worth for you to reply to someone you don’t know? I think generally people are rewarded when they nurture existing relationships, not when they have to build new ones over and over again.",[24,119,121],{"id":120},"what-i-am-interested-in","What I am interested in",[10,123,124],{},"Spending time",[61,126,127,130,133,136,139,142,145],{},[64,128,129],{},"with people I love.",[64,131,132],{},"with people that spark my curiosity (very important)",[64,134,135],{},"on my health like gym, sauna, sports",[64,137,138],{},"doing nothing (hardest thing to do)",[64,140,141],{},"hacking on creative projects (writing, coding)",[64,143,144],{},"learning new things",[64,146,147],{},"investing in interesting original ideas",[10,149,150],{},"If anything above does apply to you, feel free to reach out.",[24,152,154],{"id":153},"notes-from-david-heinemeier-hansson","Notes from DAVID HEINEMEIER HANSSON",[10,156,157,162],{},[17,158,161],{"href":159,"rel":160},"https:\u002F\u002Fdhh.dk\u002F",[21],"David is incredible interesting person btw.",[17,163,166],{"href":164,"rel":165},"https:\u002F\u002Fworld.hey.com\u002Fdhh\u002Fno-more-platforms-please-8f01445e",[21],"Everything from everyone all the time is too much.",[24,168,170],{"id":169},"where-next","Where next?",[10,172,173],{},"Sometimes you query doesn't need to hit my inbox and better spin favorite AI model and ask it to reply for.",{"title":175,"searchDepth":176,"depth":176,"links":177},"",2,[178,179,180,181,185,186,187,188,189,190],{"id":26,"depth":176,"text":27},{"id":33,"depth":176,"text":34},{"id":40,"depth":176,"text":41},{"id":50,"depth":176,"text":51,"children":182},[183],{"id":58,"depth":184,"text":59},3,{"id":99,"depth":176,"text":100},{"id":106,"depth":176,"text":107},{"id":113,"depth":176,"text":114},{"id":120,"depth":176,"text":121},{"id":153,"depth":176,"text":154},{"id":169,"depth":176,"text":170},"2026-08-05","Did you ever thought how many interruptions do you get every day during your deep work?",false,"md",{},true,"\u002Fwritings\u002Fwhy-im-unreachable",{"title":5,"description":192},"writings\u002Fwhy-im-unreachable",[201,202,203],"productivity","mental health","writing","rUMYATwB5F43lDbSMHAVIEr5Yjoj591tfOAE8BbrOm4",1785952909553]